I'm hitting a wall and I really don't know what to do next. I've never been one to make friends easily. I'm not quick to trust people, and I'm not willing to latch on to people that I have nothing in common with just to have someone around. And I mean that in regard to dating and friendships. For years I've tried places like Meetup and several different dating sites and all I've found is the mother load of crazy. Mostly I've been OK with that. I've managed on my own pretty well. But Covid really opened my eyes to a lot of things this year, one of those things being that even though I've been able to manage by myself in the past I might not be able to in the future. So I found this place and reached out. I've had 1 response, and he's a good guy, dependable, smart, but he's 3 hours away. I don't want to discount him, but I'm looking to be part of a community. And if I can't find that through this forum, where do I go next? What do I do?