I live in an inner city in Michigan. I was living in Wyoming until my dad passed. I hate it here. The people here are rude and hateful. It is the most prejudiced place I have ever been and it’s not the white people. I am hispanic and grew up in a town where, “If you ain’t Dutch, you ain’t much.” People would call me “wetback” even though my father was from Spain and my mother was from Puerto Rico. They couldn’t be bothered to look at a map. So I get how prejudice works. Maybe I would like it better if I lived up north and had a like-minded man but i don’t. I’m preparing to sell my house that I bought in haste. I have just rented a temperature controlled storage unit to put all my canned foodstuff in. (I accidentally locked myself out and the neighbor who helped me get in saw my stuff and has blabbed it around the neighborhood that I am a “hoarder.” It’s called a pantry A-hole!) So I’m feeling better that my preps will be offsite in case I have to bug out. It’s taking me a long time to do the work myself as I have medical issues. I’m a single parent and 50 and have no help. I would like to store my important things and my jarred and canned foods, sell the house and buy an RV to live in full time. My mom says I would regret it. She has been wrong before. 😂 She doesn’t understand that every day that I’ve live here (3 years) takes a piece of me away and that I am dying here. I’ve forgotten what joy is. I’ve turned into a hermit crab. blah, blah, blah. So should I stay to be near my mom? She doesn’t get along too well with my 9 year old. She has rarely ever spent time alone with my kiddo. My mom has people that do things for her. She has friends and nice neighbors. I don’t. I am so tired of thugs and being too nervous to sleep. My kid won’t even sleep alone because we are always hearing gunshots, etc. I need some good unbiased advice, y’all. I don’t want to leave my mom and then regret the time I could have spent with her. I don’t want to get an RV that is going to leave us stranded. I want to find a state with more freedoms. I think Idaho is the one but I can’t find affordable land. Also, many places won’t let you live full time in a camper. Also, how to keep it warm in the winter? Maybe better to be mobile and chase the 70* weather all year? Sorry, this is so long. I feel like I have a nest of bees buzzing around inside my head. Thoughts? Suggestions?