Where To Start Living In North NJ

Hay Guys. I Dont Know Where To Start. Always Been Into "prepping" But After Living Through Sandy, It Hit Me And The Wife That We Weren't Close To Being As Set Up As We Should Be. So We Kicked It Up Into High Gear, Started Stacking Food And Supplies And Things To Protect Us. Got My Brother In Law And Best Friend On Board. Started To Look Into Bigger Groups, Which Was A Learning Experience Of What Not To Look For. Seemed Like A Lot Of People Just Wanna Play Soldier. We Got Families To Protect. Not Trying To Change The World. Along This Ride We Started To Take Actual Classes For Firearms Training. And Was Asked To Join A Group That The Instructor Was A Part Of. Figured Couldnt Hurt. So That Was Two Years Ago. People Have Come And Gone. And The Three Of Us Became Part Of The "core" Group. In This Time During Meetings And Training Talking To Everybody About Getting Shelters Built Went On Def Ears. Now Comes COVID-19. I Have Daughter With Pretty Serious Medical Conditions And If She Was To Get This Virus. It Wouldnt End Good. So We Are Locked Down In Our House Which Is Fine We Are Ready For The Long Haul. But IF Things Really Get Bad, We Dont Have A Place For The Group To Gather Together, We Do Have A Second Location Near Lake George NY For Us If Need Be. But Seeing This And Having Group Meetings Over Zoom. Its Come To Light That 90% Are Not Ready, Constantly Going To The Food Store And Other Places. And Just Has The Feeling Of No Solidarity. And Me And The Wife Have Felt This Way For Awhile. To The Point Where About Two Months Before This We Decided To Put Our Dream House That We Had Built 3 Years Ago On The Market And Started Looking AT Small Farms In Warwick NY. Which Now That This Happened We Are Looking To Possibly Move To The Lake George Area Full Time. Or Move To New Hampshire With Family. Not Sure Where I Am Going With This, Just Been Bugging Me I Guess And Looking To Get It Off My Chest. If Ya Read This Thank You, Maybe If Your In The Areas I Listed Hit Me Up.